I’ve been raped and abuse not once… I lost a relationship I valued … First happened when I was just sixteen …by my friend’s elder brother… I was set up… It was soo painful… The next which was the most painful… I was raped by someone I used to have a lot of trust and respect for… It was devastating… My whole life was a complete mess, I battled insomnia, bipolar disorder, and depression… But thank God today I’m better… Although remembering it still chokes me but I chose to forgive them… That was what triggered my healing process… One crazy thing about our society today is that they blame us the victims .. I remember I told someone close and the first punch dude threw at me was a blaming statement.. Just had to keep my mouth sealed ….. We can’t speak to no one… I couldn’t speak to my parents because I felt they’ll blame me.
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